Unhealthy relationship warning signs

Abuse is not always physical, and it can happen at any age, in a new relationship or a marriage of 40 years. Tick what your partner or spouse does. The list is drawn from the National Domestic Violence Hotline and love is respect.

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What are the warning signs of an abusive relationship?

The National Domestic Violence Hotline lists signs such as constant put-downs, extreme jealousy, keeping you from friends and family, controlling money or decisions, threats, destroying belongings, pressure about sex, drugs or alcohol, and any physical harm.

Is it still abuse if they never hit me?

Yes. Abuse can be emotional, verbal, financial, sexual or digital. Control, fear and put-downs can harm you as much as physical violence.

Who can I call for help?

In the US, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text START to 88788. In Korea, call the Women's Emergency Line 1366, open 24 hours. In immediate danger, call 911 in the US or 112 in Korea.