Some everyday medicines can make thinking foggy, especially after age 65. A pill bought at the drugstore for allergies or sleep can do this. So can a prescription for an overactive bladder or for anxiety. In a person who already has memory problems, these medicines can make confusion, falls and agitation worse.
The good news is that this is one of the few causes of worse memory that you can often do something about. This page explains which medicines matter most, what experts recommend, and how to get every pill in the house checked.
Key points
- Medicines that block a brain messenger called acetylcholine (called anticholinergic drugs) can cause confusion in older adults. Examples include diphenhydramine (Benadryl) and older bladder pills like oxybutynin.1
- Benzodiazepines (such as lorazepam, alprazolam and diazepam) and the "Z-drug" sleeping pills (such as zolpidem) raise the risk of confusion, falls and car crashes in older adults.1,2
- The AGS Beers Criteria (2023) is the main U.S. expert list of medicines older adults should usually avoid. It names these drug groups for people with dementia.1
- A brown-bag review means bringing every medicine, vitamin and supplement to the doctor or pharmacist for a check.3
- Never stop a medicine on your own. Some must be tapered slowly. Talk with your doctor or pharmacist first.4,5
Why older brains react more to some medicines
As we age, the liver and kidneys clear many drugs more slowly. Medicines stay in the body longer and build up. The aging brain also becomes more sensitive to drugs that cause sleepiness.
Dementia adds to this. Alzheimer's disease lowers the brain's supply of acetylcholine, a chemical messenger that helps with memory and attention. Medicines that block acetylcholine take away even more. That is why the same pill that is fine for a 40-year-old can leave a person with dementia confused or unsteady.
There is also a tug-of-war to know about. Memory medicines like donepezil, rivastigmine and galantamine work by raising acetylcholine. Anticholinergic drugs push the other way. Taking both can mean each one works less well.
What the Beers Criteria say
The American Geriatrics Society (AGS) Beers Criteria is a list of medicines that are often a poor choice for adults 65 and older. The AGS has kept it up to date since 2011 and revises it every few years. This page uses the 2023 update.1
The list has five parts:5
- Medicines most older adults should avoid
- Medicines to avoid with certain health problems, such as dementia
- Medicines to use with caution
- Drug combinations that can cause harm together
- Medicines to avoid or adjust when the kidneys are weak
For people with dementia or memory problems, the 2023 list says to avoid four groups: anticholinergic drugs, benzodiazepines, Z-drug sleeping pills and antipsychotics.1 The list also warns against combining anticholinergic drugs. It also warns against taking three or more drugs that act on the brain together, because this raises the risk of falls.1
The Beers list is a starting point for a talk, not a set of rules. A medicine on the list may still be the right choice for a certain person. The list does not apply to hospice or end-of-life care.1,5
Anticholinergic medicines: the biggest group
Anticholinergic drugs block acetylcholine. Besides confusion, they can cause dry mouth, constipation, blurry vision, trouble passing urine and a fast heartbeat. Many people do not know their medicine is in this group.
| Type of medicine | Common examples |
|---|---|
| Allergy and sleep aids (older antihistamines) | Diphenhydramine (Benadryl, Nytol, Sominex), "PM" pain relievers such as Advil PM and Tylenol PM, hydroxyzine, chlorpheniramine1,6,7 |
| Overactive bladder pills | Oxybutynin, tolterodine and similar drugs1,8 |
| Older antidepressants | Amitriptyline, doxepin, paroxetine1,9 |
| Motion sickness and nausea | Meclizine, scopolamine patch, promethazine1 |
| Muscle relaxants | Cyclobenzaprine1 |
| Some Parkinson's and psychiatric drugs | Benztropine, trihexyphenidyl, some antipsychotics1,10 |
Benadryl and "PM" products. Diphenhydramine is in many drugstore sleep aids and nighttime pain relievers. The National Library of Medicine says older adults generally should not use it, except for a serious allergic reaction.6 For people with Lewy body dementia, these "PM" products can also cause agitation.7
Bladder pills. Urinary urgency and leaking are common in dementia. Older bladder pills like oxybutynin are strongly anticholinergic. The 2024 urology guideline tells doctors to talk with patients about the possible risk of memory problems and dementia when they prescribe these drugs.8 The same guideline offers another drug group (beta-3 agonists) and bladder training as options.8 See bladder and bowel problems for non-drug help.
Do these medicines cause dementia?
This is still being studied. Two large studies point in the same direction:
- In a U.S. study of about 3,400 people age 65 and older, those with the most anticholinergic use had about a 54% higher risk of dementia. "The most" meant about three years or more of daily use.9
- In an English study of about 284,000 people, high use of certain anticholinergic drugs was linked with about 1.5 times the odds of dementia. The link was clearest for bladder pills, antidepressants, Parkinson's drugs, antipsychotics and seizure drugs.10
Both studies were observational. That means they show a link, not proof that the drugs cause dementia.9,10 Even so, experts say it makes sense to use these drugs less when safer choices exist.9,10
Benzodiazepines and Z-drug sleeping pills
Benzodiazepines are calming and sleep medicines. Common ones include alprazolam (Xanax), lorazepam (Ativan), clonazepam (Klonopin), diazepam (Valium) and temazepam (Restoril).4 Z-drugs are newer sleeping pills: zolpidem (Ambien), eszopiclone (Lunesta) and zaleplon (Sonata).2
In older adults, both groups can cause:
- Next-day grogginess and slower thinking, even when you feel awake2
- Confusion and memory gaps1
- Falls and broken bones1
- Car crashes1
The FDA has a boxed warning (its strongest warning) on all benzodiazepines. It covers misuse, addiction, physical dependence and withdrawal.4 Taking them with opioid pain medicines can slow breathing to a dangerous level.4 Z-drugs carry their own boxed warning. They can cause sleepwalking, sleep-driving and other actions done while not fully awake. Some of these events have led to serious injury or death.2
For people with Lewy body dementia, the Lewy Body Dementia Association says benzodiazepines are best avoided unless there is a specific reason. One exception doctors sometimes make is clonazepam at night for acting out dreams.7
Do not stop a benzodiazepine suddenly. After regular use, stopping fast can cause withdrawal, including seizures. A doctor can plan a slow, step-by-step taper that fits the person.4
For safer ways to help sleep in dementia, see sleep medicines in dementia and sleep problems in dementia.
Other medicines worth a second look
These are not always wrong, but they deserve a careful review in a person with memory problems:
- Antipsychotics (such as haloperidol, risperidone and quetiapine). The Beers list says to avoid them for behavior in dementia unless non-drug steps have failed and the person is a danger to self or others.1 People with Lewy body dementia can have severe reactions, including much stiffer movement.7 Read more on medicines for agitation and behavior.
- Opioid pain medicines. They can cause sleepiness and confusion, and they can trigger delirium.11 Pain still needs treatment, so ask about the safest plan.
- Several brain-acting drugs at once. In a Medicare study of 1.2 million people with dementia, about 1 in 7 took three or more brain-acting drugs (such as sedatives, antidepressants, antipsychotics or opioids) for more than a month.12
- Alcohol. It adds to the effects of sleep and anxiety medicines. See alcohol-related brain damage.
Sudden confusion: when to get help fast
Delirium is a sudden change in thinking and attention. It can come on over hours or days. Medicines are a common cause, including sedatives, opioids and withdrawal from a medicine that was stopped.11 People with dementia are at higher risk.11 Delirium is often treatable, so it should never be brushed off as "just the dementia getting worse."11
Call 911 if someone suddenly cannot stay awake, has trouble breathing, has a seizure, or is very confused and cannot be kept safe. Call the doctor the same day if confusion is new or much worse after a new medicine or a dose change. If a medicine overdose may have happened, call Poison Help at 1-800-222-1222. If you or the person you care for is thinking about suicide, call or text 988.
Learn more on treatable conditions that look like dementia and hospital stays and emergency rooms.
The brown-bag medicine review
A brown-bag review is simple. You put every medicine the person takes into a bag and bring it to the doctor or pharmacist. Seeing the real bottles shows what is actually being taken, and how. It can catch mistakes and medicines the doctor did not know about.3
- Gather everything. Include prescriptions, drugstore medicines, vitamins, supplements and herbal products. Also bring creams, eye drops, inhalers, patches and liquids.3
- Bring pills as they are. Bring the original bottles, plus any weekly pill box you use.3
- Check the nightstand and bathroom. Sleep aids and "PM" products are easy to forget.
- Bring a written list of all medicines and supplements to every visit, too.5
- Ask the key questions (see below).
- Make one plan. Write down any changes and who will follow up. Update the list.
Questions to ask
Could any of these medicines affect memory, sleepiness or balance?
Ask the doctor or pharmacist to check the whole list against the Beers Criteria. Ask if there is a safer or more effective choice.5
Is each medicine still needed?
Some medicines were started years ago for a problem that is gone. Stopping or lowering medicines that no longer help is called deprescribing. It should match the person's health goals.12
If we change something, how should we do it?
What can we try instead of a pill?
For sleep, bladder urgency and worry, there are often non-drug steps that help. Bladder training is one example.8
Free help through Medicare. Medicare drug plans must offer Medication Therapy Management (MTM) to members who qualify. A pharmacist reviews all your medicines with you, at no cost. You get a written summary, a to-do list and a medicine list. Call your Part D plan to ask if you qualify.13 See also what Medicare covers in dementia.
Tips for caregivers
- Use one pharmacy if you can, so the pharmacist sees the full picture.
- Read labels on drugstore products. Look for diphenhydramine or the letters "PM" in sleep and cold products.6
- Watch after any change. Note new confusion, sleepiness, falls or bladder problems in a behavior diary.
- Plan for hospital stays. Bring the medicine list. Ask the team to avoid sleeping pills and anticholinergic drugs when possible.
- Keep a review on the calendar. A brown-bag check at least once a year, and after every hospital stay, is a good habit.
For daily systems like pill organizers and locked storage, see managing medicines at home. For an overview of memory medicines, go back to dementia medicines. For falls, see preventing falls.
Sources
- American Geriatrics Society 2023 Beers Criteria Update Expert Panel. American Geriatrics Society 2023 updated AGS Beers Criteria for potentially inappropriate medication use in older adults. J Am Geriatr Soc, 2023. PubMed
- U.S. Food and Drug Administration. FDA adds Boxed Warning for risk of serious injuries caused by sleepwalking with certain prescription insomnia medicines. FDA, 2019. FDA
- Agency for Healthcare Research and Quality. Conduct brown bag medicine reviews: Tool 8. Health Literacy Universal Precautions Toolkit, 3rd ed. AHRQ, 2024. AHRQ
- U.S. Food and Drug Administration. FDA requiring Boxed Warning updated to improve safe use of benzodiazepine drug class. FDA, 2020. FDA
- Health in Aging Foundation. Medications that older adults should avoid or use with caution. American Geriatrics Society, 2023. HealthInAging.org
- MedlinePlus. Diphenhydramine. National Library of Medicine, 2026. MedlinePlus
- Lewy Body Dementia Association. Treatment guidance and medication considerations in LBD. LBDA, 2015. LBDA
- American Urological Association and SUFU. Diagnosis and treatment of idiopathic overactive bladder: AUA/SUFU guideline. AUA, 2024. AUA
- Gray SL, et al. Cumulative use of strong anticholinergic medications and incident dementia. JAMA Intern Med, 2015. PMC
- Coupland CAC, et al. Anticholinergic drug exposure and the risk of dementia: a nested case-control study. JAMA Intern Med, 2019. University of Southampton
- MedlinePlus. Delirium. National Library of Medicine, 2023. MedlinePlus
- National Institute on Aging. The dangers of polypharmacy and the case for deprescribing in older adults. NIA. NIA
- Medicare.gov. Medication therapy management programs for complex health needs. Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services, 2026. Medicare.gov
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